A friend of Dr. Simmons Patrick shared with him an exchange she had with an elderly relative of theirs who was nearing the end of his earthly life. She said her Grandpa was seated on a patio bench, looking rather frail. She didn't want to disturb him, but she wanted to be sure he was OK, so she sat down beside him. He assured her that he was fine, and then he asked, "Have you ever REALLY LOOKED at your hands?"