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Kristy Kelly: Overwhelmed with gratitude

If I could have any superpower, what would it be? This question was asked during a recent video project I worked on. Without hesitation, or much thought, I said invisibility. I’ve spent a lifetime perfecting the art of blending in—being seen but not noticed. True invisibility held a deep appeal.

Mike Parker: Some considerations as we enter the New Year

As we come to the beginning of a new year, most of us give at least a little thought to making some New Year’s resolutions. I gave up on making New Year’s resolutions because I never could stick to most of them. Of course, one of my resolutions always was to lose weight. I read a recent article that said we should not make such a resolution because we will end up being unhappy, unsuccessful, or both.

Lesley Rigsby: Obedience

 Have you ever been asked to do something that you felt you were not qualified to do or something way outside your comfort zone? Maybe you were asked to give a speech to a large group of people, or presented with a job or task you felt you were not qualified to do.

Cooking with Tammy Kelly: Tired of Thanksgiving Leftovers?

Did your turkey outlast your Thanksgiving lunch?  Are you on dressing and mashed potato overload?  No problem, try a new gourmet turkey sandwich, a healthy turkey salad or stir your turkey with some vegetables!  There are so many ways to use leftovers; never let them go to waste.  You certainly have free rein over the recipe ingredients to change or make additions according to your leftovers!

Kristy Kelly: Happiness is a struggle

Mental illness has a way of warping even the mundane into something darkly comedic.
I have spent my entire life planning to survive. That’s it, to survive. At first, I survived on instinct, then anger, and finally out of spite. When stress is a comfort zone and anxiety is a security blanket, normalcy becomes subjective. Apparently, I can now turn happiness into abject terror.

Evelyn Coleman Dove: Generational Wealth

When I was growing up, certain wealthy families were always in the news.  People who were on the cutting edge of the next new thing were able to amass wealth. It was a common thing to say a person was living like the Rockefellers or Vanderbilts when they bought a lot of things. 

Bucklesberry: First Inhabitants

Challenges and risks awaited early eighteenth century settlers who arrived in the unsettled Bucklesberry Pocosin of then old Craven County. According to historian and author Dr. Lindley S. Butler, PhD, "The backcountry was the last area of the State to be settled and, consequently, the most volatile region of North Carolina society for many years." 

Evelyn Dove Coleman: Blessed with family

As we celebrate Thanksgiving, I am reminded of how blessed we are to have a family. This week I heard from various people who are staying in during the holiday, some due to traffic, others due to weather. But with some, their relatives live far away, and they are flying solo not by choice.